6 good reasons to try BDSM
All sadomasochistic sexual practices are called BDSM. Brought back to light with the seductive Mr. Grey 50 shades of graythis is actually a very old practice.
The first recognized follower in antiquity would be Pherosas, the brother of Herod (a Greek king) who, according to legend, liked to be bound and then beaten by his slaves. However, still frowned upon in collective thought, this practice actually has many advantages that you certainly do not suspect.
Here are 6 reasons to try BDSM if you haven’t already!
DISCLAIMER : All sexual practice and intercourse must be performed MANDATORY with the consent and desire of his/her partner.
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1/ Listening to his curious little voice
If you clicked on this article, it is because you are interested in this topic. Curiosity makes us happy every day. The desire to explore new things is specific to humans, so why limit yourself to it when it tickles your sexual desires?
2/ Because it can really do GOOD!
Several studies show that pain can be pleasurable when chosen and not put at risk. Research has shown that pain and pleasure sensations activate the same neural mechanisms in the brain. These two emotions are both related to the dopaminergic and opioid systems involved in the reward system. So after a big spanking, no shame in having fun!
3/ It replaces yoga
Researchers even go so far as to suggest that the effects of sadomasochism are similar to those of yoga or certain meditation practices. In short, to alter your state of consciousness you are spoiled for choice!
4/ To strengthen your bonds
BDSM offers a different sense of intimacy and connection. Exercise can be very intense and requires great trust in your partner. There is a golden rule for this in BDSM: and safe word (safety word needs to be set up to stop if you don’t like the practice anymore)
→ And to help you practice BDSM safely, don’t hesitate to enter into a moral or written contract by writing down your mutual boundaries.
5/ It’s like opening Pandora’s box: there are hundreds of possible games
A long list awaits if you decide to jump in. Here are a few examples to get you started:
- The most common practices: – spanking / slapping / hair pulling – sensory deprivation – bondage (shackles, shackles, handcuffs, – remember to take the fur for fragile wrists) – command – insults – scratching and biting
- For the most painful: ropes – tape – sex toys (whip – vibrator – cock ring) – orgasm control (frustration play) – strangulation / suffocation – role play – nipple clamps – the famous gag ball – harness – needles
- Go through the extremes: hang – burn – mummify – drown (no danger to life!) and the list could be continued at will!
6 / Change the routine and just have fun!
Making love is beautiful, but sometimes limiting. As we know, many people get bored after a few years as a couple.
So, to renew your intimate lovemaking, why not choose from the long list above and take a quick trip to a sex shop to find your finest objects. And a piece of advice for women and men who love fashion, do not hesitate to go to a lingerie shop, there are often very beautiful costumes that will enliven your roles.
Have fun !
… by Emma FEYZEAU – with the participation of Juliette Cosme
